Wellness – Well + Woman

My Fertility Journey

At the time of My Wellness Journey post, my ultimate goal at that time was to conceive. We reached the point that I was able to have regular cycles, and I was tediously tracking my cervical mucus throughout my cycle using the Creighton Model with the help of my amazing Creighton Model practitioner, Stephanie Gavin.¹ For me, achieving regular cycles required the help of a medication that stimulates ovulation called letrozole in addition to bioidentical progesterone and estradiol – all of which I took during very specific days of my cycle. (All of these should only be prescribed by a licensed physician).

What does “regular cycle” really mean? When I say cycle, I am referring to the first day of my period through the day before my next period begins. By “regular”, I am meaning cycles that are regularly lasting 28 to 40 days with confirmed ovulation (typically around day 14-25). Most period tracking apps will automatically assume that you have a 28 day cycle and ovulate on day 14. Although this is not an uncommon pattern, many women whose cycles are still completely normal ovulate later in their cycle, which then causes their cycle as a whole to be longer.²

Once on my medication regime, my cycles were typically about 33-35 days long with ovulation occurring around day 18-20. I was also taking several supplements as support including a probiotic to encourage good gut function, a prenatal for general vitamin support and to prepare my body for pregnancy, echinacea to promote good immune function, and B6 to improve the quality of my cervical mucus. (Again, these are not medical recommendations, just what I was personally taking under the guidance of my doctor).

One of the many things I learned through this process was the importance of having good quality cervical mucus. Cervical mucus is exactly what it sounds like – mucus developed by the cervix, which is located just below the uterus. You have cervical mucus present for most of your cycle, but there are only a few days that it is fertile. When the mucus is fertile, it is clear, stretchy, and feels slippery.

Okay, nerd out with me for a second. The coolest part about cervical mucus is when it is fertile, it matches the consistency of a male’s ejaculatory fluid, so that the sperm can seamlessly transfer from the male’s ejaculate to the female’s cervical mucus into the uterus to fertilize an egg if successful ovulation has occurred. Now, if that is not an example of God’s design I don’t know what is!

If you can’t tell, I get a little pumped to talk about fertility and all the things surrounding it. It makes me wonder why we do not teach the basics of fertility and menstrual cycles in school, since it literally occurs in every female body consistently from puberty until menopause. But that is a whole other soap box for another day.

Moving right along, after some dosage adjustments in the medications I was taking, we finally had our first positive pregnancy test at the end of January 2021! It was the most amazing day, and I will never forget the flood of emotions that came when I saw those two lines. It took us almost a full year of tedious cycle tracking, bloodwork, supplement management, diet modifications, and medical intervention to conceive our sweet boy. And the timing was perfect, even though I struggled to see that in the moment.

I know for many people, the journey to having a child is much longer, and for others much shorter, but I lay out the details of my story in hopes that I can encourage other women and couples who are in the midst of their own fertility journeys to not lose hope. I hope to inspire women to advocate for themselves, do their own research, and seek out medical professionals that will come alongside you in this journey.

Onward & Upward,

Allison

P.S. Here are a few resources that were critical in this process for me, and I highly recommend them for ALL women, whether you are trying to conceive or not!

Creighton Model Website: https://creightonmodel.com/
Book: Taking Charge of Your Fertility by Toni Weschler, MPH
Book: Beyond the Pill by Dr. Jolene Brighton

References:

Creighton Model, 16 Dec. 2020, https://creightonmodel.com/.
Weschler, Toni. Taking Charge of Your Fertility: The Definitive Guide to Natural Birth Control, Pregnancy Achievement, and Reproductive Health ; 20th Anniversary Edition. William Morrow, an Imprint of HarperCollinsPublishers, 2015.

Restore Your Pelvic Floor

Whether you had your baby yesterday or 40 years ago, you are postpartum! And it is never too late to improve your pelvic floor muscle function.

To many people’s surprise, restoring your pelvic floor postpartum does not revolve around kegals! Pelvic floor strengthening is important, but it is far from the only component, not to mention strengthening the pelvic floor involves much more than kegals anyways.

After a baby is born vaginally, it takes about 6 weeks for your vaginal tissue to heal. It is important to limit your activity to only necessary activities during your first 2-3 weeks postpartum. Around week 3-4, depending on how you are feeling, you may be able to start back to gentle, low impact exercise like walking or yoga. It is important to ease yourself back into exercise, pushing your body past its limits can cause more harm than good.

If you had a c-section, the abdominal scar will take a little longer to heal. It is best to limit activity until 6-8 weeks postpartum to allow for full scar tissue development and healing. Then, gradually increase your exercise – starting with low intensity and building from there.

There are certain symptoms you want to watch for when returning to exercise postpartum including:

Pelvic, vaginal, or abdominal pain
Urinary incontinence
Heaviness/pressure in the vaginal area

If you experience these symptoms, you may be doing too much too soon, and you would definitely benefit from seeing a pelvic floor physical therapist to address the root cause of the dysfunction and help you recover.

The progression to returning to exercise and activities of daily living will vary from person to person. The most important thing is to listen to your body and what it is ready for.

We want to restore the function of the muscles and connective tissue found in the entire trunk – because they are all affected by pregnancy and delivery! Like I mentioned earlier, we don’t want to only strengthen – muscles need to lengthen just as much as they need to contract, that’s how we have dynamic movement! Note that lengthening does not mean weak; it just means that the tissues can move through their full range of motion efficiently.

A few of my favorite muscle lengthening/mobility exercises are:

Diaphragmatic breathing: sitting or lying down → place one hand on your chest and the other on your stomach → inhale and allow only the hand on your belly to rise, keep the one on your chest still → exhale and let your abdomen relax
Happy baby pose: lie down on your back → bend your knees towards your chest → grab the bottoms of your feet with each hand → hold this position while breathing slowly and deeply (modify with 1 leg at a time if needed!)
Cat/cow: start on all fours → inhale and round out your spine from your head to your tailbone → exhale and allow your abdomen to drop and head to look up

Do these exercises 2-3x/day for 1 minute each.

Now of course, we need to strengthen our bodies too! So here are three gentle strengthening exercises that will target your core and pelvic floor:

Squats: start standing with feet just past hip width apart → push your buttock back and squat to about 60-90 degrees (not deep) → return to stand
Bird dog: start on all fours → gently draw your belly button to your spine → raise one arm and the opposite leg, keeping your hips level → return to starting position → repeat on the opposite sides
Lower trunk rotations: lying on your back → bend your knees, keeping your feet on the floor → slowly lower your legs to one side then the other (to make this more challenging, raise your legs up so your feet are off the floor and knees are bent at 90 degrees)

Start with 2 sets of 8 reps and progress up to 3 sets of 12 reps over time. Make sure to avoid breath holding, gently breathe in and out through the entire exercise.

You can start the diaphragmatic breathing right away! It is super great for the nervous system, to get blood flow to the pelvic area, and to prevent muscle spasm. Wait until about 3-4 weeks postpartum if you delivered vaginally and 5-6 weeks if you delivered via c-section to do the other lengthening exercises, unless you have clearance from your doctor. For the strengthening exercises, wait to begin until 6 weeks postpartum if you delivered vaginally and 8-10 weeks if you delivered via c-section.

These exercises are also a great place to start even if you had a baby 10 years ago but want to get back into exercise or experience any of the symptoms described above.

Need help learning how to progress through these exercises? Find a pelvic floor physical therapist! It is our job to identify dysfunctions and guide you in the progression to optimal function.

As always, make sure to message with questions. And check out my instagram @drallisonballpt to find more exercise tips!

Onward & Upward,

Allison

My Wellness Journey

My path to wellness began when I was a teenager. I started my period at the age of 14 – later than most of my peers, but not uncommon for competitive gymnasts. My cycles were irregular – I would have a period once every few months. I was told by my pediatrician that sometimes it can take a little while for the body to get in sync, so the plan was to watch and wait. Fast forward to 4 years later, nothing had changed. I never knew when my periods were coming, and knowing what I know now, I was having significant PMS (premenstrual syndrome) symptoms – bloating, mood swings, and cramping to name a few. I was then referred to an OB/GYN who ran some bloodwork and determined that I had PCOS, Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome.

PCOS is a very common condition, in fact up to 1 in 15 women battle this condition. There are many signs and symptoms of PCOS including irregular periods, series of small cysts on one or both ovaries, abnormal LH:FSH ratio (hormone that regulates your cycle), weight gain, acne, male-pattern hair growth, lower tone of voice, and insulin resistance. My primary symptoms are the first 3 listed. PCOS is associated with the development of type 2 diabetes, obesity, thyroid disorders, liver disease, and certain cancers. Needless to say, it can be a very scary diagnosis at the age of 18 – especially when I didn’t know how to decipher Dr. Google’s information.

My OB/GYN told me that the birth control pill would regulate my cycles and may help improve my PCOS symptoms long-term. So, I was put on the pill at the age of 18 – it took a couple tries, but we did find one that regulated my cycle. The problem was the pill was a band-aid and not a solution.

8 years later, my husband and I made the decision for me to get off the pill. I was hopeful – maybe now that I have been on the pill for so long, my body will just keep regulating my cycles on its own. I was very wrong. Coming off the pill, my periods went right back to being irregular and my cramps were more painful than I remembered. I knew right away, the PCOS was not cured by the pill, much to my dismay. Thankfully, I quickly found an incredible provider (s/o to Dr. Sally Kurz with WholeLife Authentic Care!) who did not dismiss my symptoms and worked to find the root cause to my problems right away. We did LOTS of bloodwork and an ultrasound, which confirmed my PCOS and also uncovered a new diagnosis – Hashimoto’s Thyroiditis.

Hashimoto’s Thyroiditis is an autoimmune disease of the thyroid. Basically, my body interprets my thyroid gland tissue as foreign – even though it’s not! This then results in the activation of my immune system, which launches an attack on my thyroid. This condition is commonly seen in women with PCOS and is one of the most common thyroid disorders.

The bloodwork also revealed a lot of imbalances – high testosterone levels, low estrogen, low progesterone, and high DHEA (indicating high stress hormones). Essentially, my hormones were all out of balance. We started implementing lifestyle changes and some low dose medications to address these problems right away – it took about 6 months, but I now have REGULAR cycles, with no birth control and minimal medication use.

Long story short, if I had known what I do now, I would not have chosen birth control to “treat” my PCOS. I do not blame my doctor – what she did was the standard of care. We have learned A LOT since I was first diagnosed, and in my opinion, what is most important is for patients to be informed of ALL of their options, so each patient can make their own informed decision regarding the course of treatment.

My hope is that I can help women advocate for themselves. Do the research, ask the questions, search for the resources. And most of all do NOT give up. There are options, and there are wonderful providers who can help you recover.

My journey is only beginning; there is still so much healing to be done! And although it feels scary, and vulnerable at times, I am excited to share my journey with you.

Onward & Upward,

Allison